Rae/Ray|AUS|non-binary|15|Demisexual|♉Taurus|2ndMay|Nerd|INTJ| times I draw, sometimes I don't. Female/neutral pronouns please :3c


im glad i have a tumblr so i can see the same four posts a thousand times on my dashboard


stop replacing mirrors with ‘you look fine’ signs i know i look fine that’s why i want to look in the mirror



video for my spanish 1 class. the directions were “film a conversation between you and a family member using the basic greetings we have learned so far this year” so naturally i made this

tumblr deleted this off my blog omfg

“25 things i wish i realized while i was still in highschool”
  1. That zit on your cheek literally does not matter
  2. Skipping class one time will not ruin your entire life
  3. The boy you’re trying so hard to impress will mean nothing to you in a year
  4. Bring coffee to school and ignore people who make fun of it
  5. Bring a snack, too. Don’t care if people hear you eating in class.
  6. Being popular isn’t and will never be something that seriously defines who you are
  7. Appreciate your teachers
  8. Doing/not doing drugs doesn’t make you cooler than anyone else.
  9. Neither does drinking
  10. Talk to the kid sitting alone; even though it may not change your life it could drastically change theirs
  11. Participate in school events
  12. Wear sweatpants everyday
  13. Or wear a dress everyday
  14. Wear whatever makes you comfortable
  15. Nobody will laugh at you if you sit alone at your lunch table for five minutes
  16. Utilize the library
  17. Don’t wait 20 minutes to text someone back just to seem cool
  18. Tell your friends how much you love them
  19. Cherish your free textbooks… seriously
  20. Help confused freshmen, be nice to them. Remember how much you would have appreciated it a couple years ago
  21. Compliment the other girls in the bathroom
  22. That fight you had with your mom really isn’t that big of a deal
  23. It’s okay to cry
  24. Don’t let your desire for a romantic relationship stop you from forming platonic relationships
  25. Remember that life does go on

(via tomlinbooties)




how the hell do i talk to people

Stand in front of them and press A





im only 17 and ive already had like 3 mid-life crises

lol me

ok lorde you’ve also been nominated for nearly 3 grammys at the age of 17

The Worst Part


Asexual: a sexual orientation in which a person does not feel sexual attraction towards anyone.

At all. Period. Full stop.

Synonyms: Not, despite what you might think, “unnatural.”

Aromantic: a romantic orientation in which a person does not feel romantic attraction towards anyone.

At all. Period. Full stop.

Synonyms: not, despite what you might think, “broken.”

The worst part of being asexual and aromantic is trying to consume media:

Book? “Of course I’ve been in love, I’m human, aren’t I?”


TV? “Once they met, they knew. They were two halves of a whole, incomplete without each other, their lonely lives meaningless…”


Radio? Sex! Sex! Sex! Sexy sex!


The worst part of being asexual and aromantic is coming out:

“You just haven’t found The One yet.”

“I thought that way too before my first time.”

“That’s not natural! Love is what makes us human!”

“But do you… you know… masturbate?”


The worst part of being asexual and aromantic is people.

It’s people who will treat “getting into your pants” like the ultimate challenge,

Like some sort of sexual boss fight,

Like proof that they are so irresistible that no one can deny them, even those who claim to dislike sex –

C’mon, baby, no one dislikes sex.

Gimme a whirl.

You’ve been sleeping with the wrong people,

I’m different. I’m better.

It’s people who will develop crushes on you and convince themselves it is a tragic love story.

They will tell you repeatedly they don’t mind that you don’t reciprocate their feelings.

They will not ask if you mind their creepy,

Overbearing feelings.

They will not take into account that you did not sign up to be the subject of their tragically beautifully unrequited poetry.

They will use you as an excuse to tell anyone who will listen that their selfless brand of love is different.

That they are better.

It’s people who will pity you,

Your sad, loveless life,

How broken must you be,

What happened to cause this martyrdom?

Why can’t you trust? Why can’t you love? Why must you be alone forever?

Poor, lonely soul, what a brave face you put on.

It’s people who will tell you to stop complaining.

There is no downside, they will say, to being asexual or aromantic.

It’s not as though you face any great hardship.

Our culture does not look down upon you.

You have not been systematically erased,

Cut out of a culture which praises love and sex above all else,

You have not lived all your life feeling broken

You did not dig up your label from some obscure corner of the internet,

You did not weep in relief when you found it, overjoyed at the notion that there are others like you,

There are no others like you –

You are a lie, they will say.

The worst part of being asexual and aromantic,

Is that for most of your life,

You will believe them.